Creativity is always appreciated, including creativity in the bedroom. Being kinky is a sexual advantage, and a kinky person can come up with various exciting sex positions, which is a real example of the implementation of bedroom creativity. But at some points, we might need more than just our organic limbs.
Using sex toys will, indeed, brings more thrill, if not satisfaction, to your relationship. It gives the sensation of getting an ‘additional help’ without involving other people who can invite jealousy. And sex toys are sold with many variations, which make them confusing to layman’s eyes.
Let us learn the 101 guidelines to understand the use of sex toys better.
BDSM instruments
BDSM (Bondage and Sadomasochism) is the very definition of kinky sex. One partner acts as the dominant, while the other as the submissive. The roleplay usually is from these scenarios:
- Master & Slave
- Boss and Workers
- Teacher & Student
BDSM uses whips, handcuffs, and leather instruments. It taught lovers to entrust and give in their bodies to their partners. Little pain might be introduced, but there is the safe-word to stop the whole activity if one partner feels that it is too much.
Finger vibrator
One type of vibrators is the one that can be attached to fingers. Aidier, Sex Toys Online Store, and HIAugymer are the three top brands of finger vibrators.
Buy one that might suit your style. And you need to know, that purchasing one of three mentioned brands is a bad idea if your partner has trypophobia unless, of course, inducing fear has been your plan since the beginning.
Use the finger vibrator when you are at the foreplay stage, not as soon as you kiss your partner, but perhaps a little while after you two have exchanged passionate kisses. Females’ pleasure spot is on their clitoris, while males’ on their prostates.
Start with light and gentle vibration, and gradually rise to the heavy one. Play with it after your partner has been aroused enough.
Double dildo
If it has not crossed your mind, penetrative pleasure is not exclusive to women. With a double dildo, you can ask your partner to peg you while feeling the pleasure too.
By giving the chance of penetration to your partner, you bring new excitement to your sexual life, which is a turn-on on its own.
Blindfold
With a blindfold on your partner, you can eliminate her/his ability to anticipate what action you are going to do. It will bring a thrill to your love session.
Combine a blindfold with BDSM instrument, and do a roleplay. There will be no more prince who saves his love from the dungeon, but a captor and the kidnapped victim.
