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How to Spice Things Up in the Bedroom

When it comes to your love life, most people say that the sex part in a relationship is one of the most vital things to have a great relationship with your significant other. When it comes to the sex department, a lot of people want to be great at it since it is one of the critical things regarding lasting relationships. However, with that being said, even Cassanova himself can attest that he might still have some room for improvement.

For you to be able to be a fantastic lover in the bedroom, there are several things that you can do and change so that you can please your partner. There are several things that you can do for you to excel in the bedroom, one of them is by spicing things up. Here are some things that you can do for you to spice things up in the bedroom:

Texts and Talks

sexTo spice things up in the bedroom, you should start somewhere outside of the bedroom. Your first step in improving your love life comes even before the sex part even begins. When you want your partner to be in the mood for making love in order for you to be able to achieve a great climax, you need to start slipping in their minds. For you to be able to do that, you should start by sending them texts and talking to them.

However, they are not just your ordinary texts and talks. You should start sending them sexts and dirty talk. Doing this will set their psychological mood so that they will be eager to be having intercourse with you. That will later show in their actual lovemaking performance.

Set the Mood

If you want it to be special, you should set the mood. When before we’ve talked about setting your partner’s psychological mood, right now we are talking about setting the mood of the room. To set the mood, there are several things that you can do. You can scatter some rose petals, light up some candles, turn on some romantic music, and many other things according to your heart’s desire.

Try Something New

sexy backTo make things even spicier in the bedroom, you can try something new. In fact, you can try a new place beside doing it in the bedroom. You can also try new positions. You can try new kinky things, like role-playing. Other than that, you can try doing it with new sex toys or sex equipment. Doing this will excite your partner, and you will better understand their desires so that you can improve yourself.…

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Ways to Improve Your Sexual Performance

Poor sexual performance can be depressing. We will feel our partner’s dissatisfaction through their gaze on us if we have been unfit on the bed. The first time it happens, the impact may be neglectable. But when it is a recurring condition, our confidence may be at cost.

And we shall not take confidence matter lightly. Psychological health has been scientifically proved to be affecting physical health. Read below to know the ways of improving sexual performance.

Mental state vs. Physical fitness

CardioAn unfit physical condition will undoubtedly affect your erection, but a feeble mind will too. The truth is, there will be no use of contrasting mental state and physical fitness to see which one is more superior than the other because both are interconnected.

Anxiety is a boner-killer. The way you present yourself as a socially-awkward person will give you no good. When you believe that you can be yourself to attract your potential lover, you should be careful with your belief. It is not a justification for you not to change your bad behavior.

Trace the cause of your negative mental state. Mostly, it can be traced to your physical state. Low-confidence caused by obesity, for example. Unless overweight is your medical condition, you should exercise more than before to gain confidence.

Using all means necessary

handcuffs-2773819_1920After you can overcome the problems that come from your inner-self, as discussed above, you should work on your creativity on the bed. Most men do not care about giving pleasing foreplay to their partner. They fixate too much on erection and ejaculation, while in fact, more than seventy percent of women reach orgasms by cunnilingus.

There are also sex toys that you and your partner can enjoy. If you are not comfortable with penetrative toys, vibrators can be your choice. Some brands make it possible for you wear the device on your penis to achieve the most satisfying love experience.

Sex joyAlso, do not be too conservative. Conventional sex is the worst mood killer, especially when you and your partner have been in a long-term relationship. Be open to your partner’s idea, and compromise to his/her wildest idea.

Mind your diet

We are not talking about weight loss. As long you are comfortable, and your partner has no trouble with your weight, then there is no problem worth discussing.

Meals

What it means by the phrase, “Mind your diet,” is that perhaps there are something unappealing to your partner about your meal preference. Some foods have a strong smell, and maybe your partner does not like it.

Your partner may not discuss the matter with you, but his/her gestures will show it. And up to this point, you might not have noticed those simple yet important details.

Exotic foods are also risky. Do not eat them on the first date, or while you are with your partner. They can ruin your partner’s meal, and at the end, you are the one who feels sorry.…

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