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How to Spice Things Up in the Bedroom

When it comes to your love life, most people say that the sex part in a relationship is one of the most vital things to have a great relationship with your significant other. When it comes to the sex department, a lot of people want to be great at it since it is one of the critical things regarding lasting relationships. However, with that being said, even Cassanova himself can attest that he might still have some room for improvement.

For you to be able to be a fantastic lover in the bedroom, there are several things that you can do and change so that you can please your partner. There are several things that you can do for you to excel in the bedroom, one of them is by spicing things up. Here are some things that you can do for you to spice things up in the bedroom:

Texts and Talks

sexTo spice things up in the bedroom, you should start somewhere outside of the bedroom. Your first step in improving your love life comes even before the sex part even begins. When you want your partner to be in the mood for making love in order for you to be able to achieve a great climax, you need to start slipping in their minds. For you to be able to do that, you should start by sending them texts and talking to them.

However, they are not just your ordinary texts and talks. You should start sending them sexts and dirty talk. Doing this will set their psychological mood so that they will be eager to be having intercourse with you. That will later show in their actual lovemaking performance.

Set the Mood

If you want it to be special, you should set the mood. When before we’ve talked about setting your partner’s psychological mood, right now we are talking about setting the mood of the room. To set the mood, there are several things that you can do. You can scatter some rose petals, light up some candles, turn on some romantic music, and many other things according to your heart’s desire.

Try Something New

sexy backTo make things even spicier in the bedroom, you can try something new. In fact, you can try a new place beside doing it in the bedroom. You can also try new positions. You can try new kinky things, like role-playing. Other than that, you can try doing it with new sex toys or sex equipment, like fox tail butt plugs and others. Doing this will excite your partner, and you will better understand their desires so that you can improve yourself.…

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Sex Toys 101 to Spice Up Your Sexual Life

Creativity is always appreciated, including creativity in the bedroom. Being kinky is a sexual advantage, and a kinky person can come up with various exciting sex positions, which is a real example of the implementation of bedroom creativity. But at some points, we might need more than just our organic limbs.

Using sex toys will, indeed, brings more thrill, if not satisfaction, to your relationship. It gives the sensation of getting an ‘additional help’ without involving other people who can invite jealousy. And sex toys are sold with many variations, which make them confusing to layman’s eyes.

Let us learn the 101 guidelines to understand the use of sex toys better.

BDSM instruments

handcuffBDSM (Bondage and Sadomasochism) is the very definition of kinky sex. One partner acts as the dominant, while the other as the submissive. The roleplay usually is from these scenarios:

  • Master & Slave
  • Boss and Workers
  • Teacher & Student

BDSM uses whips, handcuffs, and leather instruments. It taught lovers to entrust and give in their bodies to their partners. Little pain might be introduced, but there is the safe-word to stop the whole activity if one partner feels that it is too much.

Finger vibrator

One type of vibrators is the one that can be attached to fingers. Aidier, Sex Toys Online Store, and HIAugymer are the three top brands of finger vibrators.

PoseBuy one that might suit your style. And you need to know, that purchasing one of three mentioned brands is a bad idea if your partner has trypophobia unless, of course, inducing fear has been your plan since the beginning.

Use the finger vibrator when you are at the foreplay stage, not as soon as you kiss your partner, but perhaps a little while after you two have exchanged passionate kisses. Females’ pleasure spot is on their clitoris, while males’ on their prostates.

Start with light and gentle vibration, and gradually rise to the heavy one. Play with it after your partner has been aroused enough.

Double dildo

Double HeadIf it has not crossed your mind, penetrative pleasure is not exclusive to women. With a double dildo, you can ask your partner to peg you while feeling the pleasure too.

By giving the chance of penetration to your partner, you bring new excitement to your sexual life, which is a turn-on on its own.

Blindfold

Blindfold2With a blindfold on your partner, you can eliminate her/his ability to anticipate what action you are going to do. It will bring a thrill to your love session.

Combine a blindfold with BDSM instrument, and do a roleplay. There will be no more prince who saves his love from the dungeon, but a captor and the kidnapped victim.…

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