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Sex Toys 101 to Spice Up Your Sexual Life

Sex Toys

Creativity is always appreciated, including creativity in the bedroom. Being kinky is a sexual advantage, and a kinky person can come up with various exciting sex positions, which is a real example of the implementation of bedroom creativity. But at some points, we might need more than just our organic limbs.

Using sex toys will, indeed, brings more thrill, if not satisfaction, to your relationship. It gives the sensation of getting an ‘additional help’ without involving other people who can invite jealousy. And sex toys are sold with many variations, which make them confusing to layman’s eyes.

Let us learn the 101 guidelines to understand the use of sex toys better.

BDSM instruments

handcuffBDSM (Bondage and Sadomasochism) is the very definition of kinky sex. One partner acts as the dominant, while the other as the submissive. The roleplay usually is from these scenarios:

  • Master & Slave
  • Boss and Workers
  • Teacher & Student

BDSM uses whips, handcuffs, and leather instruments. It taught lovers to entrust and give in their bodies to their partners. Little pain might be introduced, but there is the safe-word to stop the whole activity if one partner feels that it is too much.

Finger vibrator

One type of vibrators is the one that can be attached to fingers. Aidier, Sex Toys Online Store, and HIAugymer are the three top brands of finger vibrators.

PoseBuy one that might suit your style. And you need to know, that purchasing one of three mentioned brands is a bad idea if your partner has trypophobia unless, of course, inducing fear has been your plan since the beginning.

Use the finger vibrator when you are at the foreplay stage, not as soon as you kiss your partner, but perhaps a little while after you two have exchanged passionate kisses. Females’ pleasure spot is on their clitoris, while males’ on their prostates.

Start with light and gentle vibration, and gradually rise to the heavy one. Play with it after your partner has been aroused enough.

Double dildo

Double HeadIf it has not crossed your mind, penetrative pleasure is not exclusive to women. With a double dildo, you can ask your partner to peg you while feeling the pleasure too.

By giving the chance of penetration to your partner, you bring new excitement to your sexual life, which is a turn-on on its own.

Blindfold

Blindfold2With a blindfold on your partner, you can eliminate her/his ability to anticipate what action you are going to do. It will bring a thrill to your love session.

Combine a blindfold with BDSM instrument, and do a roleplay. There will be no more prince who saves his love from the dungeon, but a captor and the kidnapped victim.…

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Ways to Improve Your Sexual Performance

Sexual Performance

Poor sexual performance can be depressing. We will feel our partner’s dissatisfaction through their gaze on us if we have been unfit on the bed. The first time it happens, the impact may be neglectable. But when it is a recurring condition, our confidence may be at cost.

And we shall not take confidence matter lightly. Psychological health has been scientifically proved to be affecting physical health. Read below to know the ways of improving sexual performance.

Mental state vs. Physical fitness

CardioAn unfit physical condition will undoubtedly affect your erection, but a feeble mind will too. The truth is, there will be no use of contrasting mental state and physical fitness to see which one is more superior than the other because both are interconnected.

Anxiety is a boner-killer. The way you present yourself as a socially-awkward person will give you no good. When you believe that you can be yourself to attract your potential lover, you should be careful with your belief. It is not a justification for you not to change your bad behavior.

Trace the cause of your negative mental state. Mostly, it can be traced to your physical state. Low-confidence caused by obesity, for example. Unless overweight is your medical condition, you should exercise more than before to gain confidence.

Using all means necessary

handcuffs-2773819_1920After you can overcome the problems that come from your inner-self, as discussed above, you should work on your creativity on the bed. Most men do not care about giving pleasing foreplay to their partner. They fixate too much on erection and ejaculation, while in fact, more than seventy percent of women reach orgasms by cunnilingus.

There are also sex toys that you and your partner can enjoy. If you are not comfortable with penetrative toys, vibrators can be your choice. Some brands make it possible for you wear the device on your penis to achieve the most satisfying love experience.

Sex joyAlso, do not be too conservative. Conventional sex is the worst mood killer, especially when you and your partner have been in a long-term relationship. Be open to your partner’s idea, and compromise to his/her wildest idea.

Mind your diet

We are not talking about weight loss. As long you are comfortable, and your partner has no trouble with your weight, then there is no problem worth discussing.

Meals

What it means by the phrase, “Mind your diet,” is that perhaps there are something unappealing to your partner about your meal preference. Some foods have a strong smell, and maybe your partner does not like it.

Your partner may not discuss the matter with you, but his/her gestures will show it. And up to this point, you might not have noticed those simple yet important details.

Exotic foods are also risky. Do not eat them on the first date, or while you are with your partner. They can ruin your partner’s meal, and at the end, you are the one who feels sorry.…